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Loving, committed couples who care deeply about their marriage can feel confused, discouraged, or disconnected when it comes to intimacy. They have strong faith and genuine desire for closeness but were often not given clear sex education or a framework connecting body literacy, emotional safety, faith, and relational dynamics. 

Reframing Intimacy grew from a pattern that Kelsey, an occupational therapist and pelvic health expert, saw in her pelvic health and sex counseling work, and that her husband, Larry, found in his pastoral care conversations. Some Christian resources offered incomplete or inaccurate information about sexuality; some reacted to purity culture with understandable frustration but left couples without practical guidance forward. Together, Kelsey and Larry provide an honest, hopeful resource that recognizes the wounds caused by harmful sexual messaging while guiding readers toward healing and connection.

• Part 1. Getting on the Same Page—covers the basics of sexual function, including anatomy, sexual response, a checklist to gain information about each other, and a check-in on safety and understanding.
• Part 2. Ten Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have about Sex and Intimacy—provides guided discussions on common challenges couples face, such as desire differences, pain, unresolved conflict, past sexual wounds, and communication. 
• Part 3. Putting Intimacy into Practice—gives how-to guidance on sex activities to try out in the bedroom.

Clinically grounded, biblically rooted, and compassionately empathetic, Reframing Intimacy gently guides couples in rebuilding trust and joyfully experiencing intimacy without shame.